Dating for the first time
The first date is where the fun really begins, but even for the most confident amongst us, meeting someone for the first time can be nerve-wracking.
Our survival guide is designed to give you enough first date tips to help to put you at ease before and during your date, so you can rest assured it will be enjoyable, and perhaps the first of many more to come.
This isn’t an arranged marriage; you’ll have second and third dates to share more.
A glass of wine is fine, but try to get to know each other sober.
No matter how shitty of a day you had at work, or whether the restaurant you’re at has terrible service, or the movie you saw is total crap—try your best to stay positive when getting to know someone.
It’ll alleviate any anxiety he’s having about whether he’s showing you a good time, and it’ll just make you more fun to be around, pure and simple.
In the hours before your first date, make sure you distract yourself and you’ll help to keep those pre-date jitters at bay.
Plus, won’t it suck to not be able to walk a few blocks on a nice night because your heels are too high? There’s not much to say here without sounding like a preachy parent, but keep this in mind: Having to be carried home by someone you barely know isn’t fun (nor is slurring your words or crying at the dinner table).
Ahead of your first date, preparation will play a big part in keeping your stomach from doing somersaults at the mere mention of your date’s name.
If you met on dating sites, it’s more than likely that you’ll know the basics about your date and like what you’ve seen.
There’s nothing more rude than trying to have a conversation with a person who’s constantly stating at a screen.
Checking Instagram can wait—and definitely don’t post any status updates, tweets about your date in real-time, or snap any candid pics when they’re not looking. A foolproof way to ensure that conversation will always be flowing is to simply ask questions.