Questions to ask a new guy your dating
When my husband and I were still dating, I pulled up the list one night and suggested we play the “questions game.” We also mixed it up by seeing if we could guess what the other person would answer.It was a lot of fun, but also a very profound experience and we ended up learning so much about each other (and about ourselves! To this day we make an effort to spend time asking each other deep, meaningful questions that go beyond ‘how was your day?’ And every time we do this, we discover new and interesting things about each other.MORE: 225 Amazing Questions to Ask a Guy In his book “The Seven principles of Making a Marriage Work,” famed relationship researcher John Gottman (the dude who can predict whether a couple will get divorced with something like 95% accuracy after watching them interact for only a few minutes) cites “enhancing your love maps” as the first principle.A love map is essentially knowing all relevant information about your partner’s life, from small things like the name of their first pet to big things like significant experiences that shaped who they are.He explains that couples who have detailed love maps of each other’s worlds are much more equipped to cope with stressful events and overcome conflict.In this age of endless connection, we are more disconnected than ever and most relationships don’t go very far beyond the surface.Maybe it’s because we hold ourselves back or maybe it’s because we no longer have the tools to genuinely connect, like face-to-face and via conversation.
Either way, this is a great question to gain an understanding of how he views relationships.This question will tell you if he’s an introvert or extrovert.A lot of people think it’s easy to distinguish between the two but it’s not.It also has the potential to talk a bit about your childhoods, which is a really significant way to get to know someone since so much of who we are was shaped in our early years. Men in particular need to feel like they are achieving their “mission” in life.Every man has one, but not all of them are actively working to achieve it.